Love isn't a decision, it's a feeling.
If we could decide who to love, then, life would be much simpler, but then less magical.
This quote from:
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Monday, April 13, 2009
How to Get a Girlfriend - The Tips
*Always try to laugh with her,and to make her happy. If she makes fun of you it is a good sign she is interested in you.
*Girls get jealous very easily. Making up a girlfriend you met on a trip will increase your mystique and sex appeal.
*Avoid acting conceited, snobby, or self absorbed. Girls do not respect boys like this AT ALL. If you're just trying to beat your "kiss" record, and you're not actually interested in the girl, don't bother.
*Body language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key.
*If you are nervous, and going out to meet women, be sure to start talking to people as soon as you reach your destination. Chat up the staff at the door, or the people who let you into the party. Be open from the start.
*Put on great-smelling perfume (temporary liver worst scent) girls love that!!! Research the best-selling ones at department stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the outdoors or tomboy side of things. Some girls detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually becomes accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent so that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it on themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there.
*Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth, and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces. Don't think you're ugly, if you look at the boyfriends of other attractive girls, you'll find that most of them aren't like Brad Pitt either.
*Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, and and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated.
*Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
*If she does get cut off, when the other conversation is over, go back and ask her what she was saying. It is a very nice thing to do, and makes you look like a leader.
*Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
*Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
*Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.
*Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.
*Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply, but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if you absolutely can't go without saying something every day, at least correct your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly. Instead text about something that happened to you that reminded you of her, it could lead to a good conversations starter the next time you meet her.
*Don't be afraid to display your affection in public, but be aware that not all girls like that.
*Dress to match: blacks and whites, browns and blues, etc. Even if they don't say anything, girls notice.
*Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.
*Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule.
*Be yourself.
*If you're going to the movies, get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch.
*Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out.
*Taking over the entire conversation is overbearing and rude.
*Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection. *tell her that you want to have a sexual conversation
*Be a close talker. every girl likes that.*Don't make disgusting body jokes or ask them questions that are too personal.
*Make her feel like a human being instead of a sex object.
*Do not tell your friends about secrets or personal information she has told you. If she wanted your friends to know, then she would share it with them. Until then, you should assume the information is for your knowledge only.
*Don't over-compliment the girl. Complimenting is good, but if you do it too much, she will probably just think you're desperate or weird.
*Don't be too concerned for what mood the girl is in. A short, "are you feeling okay?" is fine, but DO NOT comment on how the girl appears to be. Girls don't like guys that say "you seem upset" all the time.
*Flirt not only with her, but a little with other girls as well. In fact, when you are first meeting the girl you should befriend her friends before her. But make sure she knows its her you want. Women are like sheep following a leader, if one girl is attracted to you. Another girl will notice and she will get attracted to you because the first girl is. Smiling, joking around, making the people around you happy. If you can manage that, you can get pretty much any girl.
*Immerse yourself in a group of girls. Trios of girls are the easiest target. Try to be in their lab and study groups as much as possible.
*Remember, girls will let you know within a short time if they are interested. If you seem not to find someone interested in you, or have a bunch of rejections, don't get down. Sometimes being single is a plus.
*Also keep in mind that if she talks to you first or carries on the conversation, then that means that there is something about you that she likes.
*Teasing about small things is almost always good, but don't take it too far.
Generously provided by WikiHOW,
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend
*Girls get jealous very easily. Making up a girlfriend you met on a trip will increase your mystique and sex appeal.
*Avoid acting conceited, snobby, or self absorbed. Girls do not respect boys like this AT ALL. If you're just trying to beat your "kiss" record, and you're not actually interested in the girl, don't bother.
*Body language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key.
*If you are nervous, and going out to meet women, be sure to start talking to people as soon as you reach your destination. Chat up the staff at the door, or the people who let you into the party. Be open from the start.
*Put on great-smelling perfume (temporary liver worst scent) girls love that!!! Research the best-selling ones at department stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the outdoors or tomboy side of things. Some girls detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually becomes accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent so that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it on themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there.
*Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth, and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces. Don't think you're ugly, if you look at the boyfriends of other attractive girls, you'll find that most of them aren't like Brad Pitt either.
*Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, and and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated.
*Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
*If she does get cut off, when the other conversation is over, go back and ask her what she was saying. It is a very nice thing to do, and makes you look like a leader.
*Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
*Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
*Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.
*Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.
*Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply, but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if you absolutely can't go without saying something every day, at least correct your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly. Instead text about something that happened to you that reminded you of her, it could lead to a good conversations starter the next time you meet her.
*Don't be afraid to display your affection in public, but be aware that not all girls like that.
*Dress to match: blacks and whites, browns and blues, etc. Even if they don't say anything, girls notice.
*Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.
*Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule.
*Be yourself.
*If you're going to the movies, get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch.
*Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out.
*Taking over the entire conversation is overbearing and rude.
*Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection. *tell her that you want to have a sexual conversation
*Be a close talker. every girl likes that.*Don't make disgusting body jokes or ask them questions that are too personal.
*Make her feel like a human being instead of a sex object.
*Do not tell your friends about secrets or personal information she has told you. If she wanted your friends to know, then she would share it with them. Until then, you should assume the information is for your knowledge only.
*Don't over-compliment the girl. Complimenting is good, but if you do it too much, she will probably just think you're desperate or weird.
*Don't be too concerned for what mood the girl is in. A short, "are you feeling okay?" is fine, but DO NOT comment on how the girl appears to be. Girls don't like guys that say "you seem upset" all the time.
*Flirt not only with her, but a little with other girls as well. In fact, when you are first meeting the girl you should befriend her friends before her. But make sure she knows its her you want. Women are like sheep following a leader, if one girl is attracted to you. Another girl will notice and she will get attracted to you because the first girl is. Smiling, joking around, making the people around you happy. If you can manage that, you can get pretty much any girl.
*Immerse yourself in a group of girls. Trios of girls are the easiest target. Try to be in their lab and study groups as much as possible.
*Remember, girls will let you know within a short time if they are interested. If you seem not to find someone interested in you, or have a bunch of rejections, don't get down. Sometimes being single is a plus.
*Also keep in mind that if she talks to you first or carries on the conversation, then that means that there is something about you that she likes.
*Teasing about small things is almost always good, but don't take it too far.
Generously provided by WikiHOW,
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend
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